What You Need To Know About Affirmative, Online LGBTQ+ Therapy

As a member of the community myself, I love working with LGBTQ+ clients. 

I create an atmosphere of acceptance and understanding for queer clients who are on a path of self-discovery and healing. 

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The world can be hard for queer people

People who are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, non-binary (and more) have something fundamental in common. In a world that has been historically heteronormative, members of the LGBTQ+ community have had to fight for their right to exist.

There is a lot of damage that needs to be undone in the therapeutic space for LGBTQ+ individuals. As a member of the community myself, I have experienced the devastating effects of a heteronormative culture that demands we hide who we are.

Ashlyn Baker, MA, LCMHCA, NCC

What Is LGBTQ+ Affirmative Therapy?

LGBTQ+ affirmative therapy services are those that positively support people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer. Seven percent of the American population are in the LGBTQ community and deserve qualified mental health services.

A licensed therapist who offers LGBTQ+ affirmative therapy understands the negativity people in these communities face and supports them to find joy and peace in their lives throughout their communities while they face mental health challenges.

Issues the LGBTQ+ Community Often Faces

  • Religious trauma
  • Family trauma
  • Social anxiety
  • Internalized homophobia / transphobia
  • Navigating an unsafe world
  • Unlearning traditional gender roles
  • Learning to love yourself for who you are
  • Relationships (romantic and platonic)
  • Self-identity
  • Gender identity
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How Online LGBTQ+ Therapy Sessions Can Help

Finding a therapist can be hard. Finding a therapist with experience that’s applicable to your life can be harder. It’s important to me to specialize in areas of life that are relevant to who I am.

I love working with people who are gay, lesbian, transgender, bisexual, queer, non-binary, and more. I see clients learn more about who they are, how to love their identities and grow in their confidence.

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Benefits of Online Therapy

There are many benefits of taking care of your mental health using online therapy.

While in-person therapy is the most common, today, many people find solace in being able to meet with mental health providers from the comfort of their homes, especially when dealing with personal matters such as gender identity or sexual orientation.

Meeting with your mental health provider online can help you feel relaxed and able to discuss your mental health issues with ease. You don’t have to worry about the stigma of mental health care or worry that anyone might see you.

You get the same level of care from licensed therapists as you would if you were to have in-person therapy.

In addition, online therapy services are often more convenient for people with busy schedules, the inability to commute, or certain mental health issues that make traveling to the office risky.

Mental Health Conditions Therapy Can Help With

Therapy services can help with various mental health issues, including:

  • Depression
  • Anxiety disorders
  • PTSD
  • Bipolar disorder
  • Eating disorders
  • Addictions
  • Personality disorders

The Goal of Therapy for the Queer Community

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My goal is for each of my clients to find happiness, meaning, and joy in their lives. Specifically, for my clients who identify as LGBTQ+, this means that we talk about romantic relationships, family, identity, self-acceptance, and your relationship with the world you live in.

I strive to play a role in helping shape a strong, resilient, loving community of beautiful people who are unafraid to be who they truly are.

How Do We Help Trans Identities?

As a part of the LGBTQ+ community, I can closely relate to the transgender community. I see firsthand what you go through and how you are treated.

My goal in my LGBTQ-friendly therapy space is to provide you with the care and support you deserve. This is not a judgmental space, judging you on your choices.

Instead, I provide the same type of therapy services I would provide anyone from any community. My goal is to help everyone achieve a life filled with joy and love and to feel supported in each therapy session.

About AshTree Counseling Center: Online LGBTQ+ Affirmative Therapy in North Carolina

AshTree Counseling Center was founded by Ashlyn Baker, a member of the LGBTQ community. Ashlyn also has autism and is passionate about helping people who feel lost in their lives and like they don’t fit in anywhere.

I pride myself on being able to relate with my clients and helping them feel seen and heard in a world that can be unkind.

I have a staff of non-judgmental licensed therapists who, in some shape or form, have experience and passion for helping those in the LGBTQIA community, who are empathic, and who provide personalized care whether you need individual or couples therapy.

Meet Our LGBTQ+ Friendly Therapists

Ashlyn Baker

Founder and licensed therapist who specializes in working with members of the autism and LGBTQ+ community.

Her passion is in helping neurodivergent clients find their place in a world where they feel different, enabling them to understand their brains and learn how to live in a world that may not be as accepting of their ways as they deserve.

Teal Russeau

Teal works with neurodivergent LGBTQIA adults, helping them understand who they are and how to make the most of their lives.

Teal is a part of the LGBTQ community and is also autistic with ADHD. She helps her patients find the right coping skills while learning to advocate for themselves and their needs.

Ashley Burke

Ashley works with children and adults in the LGBTQIA community with various mental health conditions, including eating disorders, addiction, PTSD, depression, anxiety, and OCD.

She provides open and caring therapy that helps you understand yourself and how to create the space you deserve to enjoy life.

Ready to move forward with online LGBTQ+ therapy?

How Our Process Works

You’re ready to get support from someone who is in your community. You’re ready to work with someone who accepts and supports you for who you are today.

As a virtual counseling practitioner, I am ready to work with you in the state of North Carolina, on your schedule, at your convenience. My approach is kind, client-centered, and entirely focused on your well-being.

1. Schedule a Free Phone Consultation

A phone consultation lasts around 15 minutes and is a great opportunity to get to know you and how I can best assist you. Once we gather some details, we schedule you for your first session.

2. Talk to Me About How I Can Help

The first intake session will involve getting to know you on a more detailed level.

I’ll ask questions about who you are, your background, your family, your goals for therapy, and your expectations. This will be a time for you to ask me questions and make sure you’re happy and comfortable.

3. Learn To Embrace Your Identity

Let me support you as you navigate a heteronormative world. Let’s celebrate what makes you you. Let’s work together to create a life for you that you love.

Not ready to begin your therapy journey today? That’s ok! Here are some resources I recommend to my LGBTQ+ clients that you might find useful!

Online LGBTQ+ Therapy Pricing

At AshTree Counseling, we focus on the patient, not on dealing with insurance companies. Our cost is $120 per session, which is 50 minutes, and we do not accept insurance.

Instead, we work directly with our patients, providing affordable online therapy options to help you address your needs and concerns without worrying about what your insurance provider says you can or cannot do.

What Our Patients Are Saying

“Ashlyn Baker was the first counselor that looked at me like a person with things going on in my life. Not like I am those things.”

“The most helpful aspect of counseling was when Ashlyn could help me identify what I was going through and put my anxiety into words.”

“I was able to have an objective point of view brought into my decision making process that also took my feelings into account, but did not sugar coat her answers.”


Is Online LGBTQ Therapy Effective?

Online LGBTQ therapy is very effective for patients who are open to it. For many in the LGBTQIA community, it is much more comfortable to have an online therapy appointment than worrying about who might see you.

Our mental health professionals provide the same level of support and treatment as you’d receive for any mental health disorder with in-person treatment.

What Is Gender Therapy, and Can It Be Done Online?

Gender therapy is therapy by mental health practitioners who understand and support those who are unsure of their identity.

Online therapy for gender identity crises is possible with the right mental health provider who can provide a safe and accessible space while you explore your sexual orientation.

Can I Access Online LGBTQ+ Counseling if I’m Under 18?

We currently only work with patients who are 18 years or older.

Is LGBTQ+ Online Counseling Secure and Confidential?

We use only HIPPA-compliant platforms to ensure the security and confidentiality of the information provided during your video sessions.

Not ready to begin your therapy journey today? That’s ok! Here are some resources I recommend to my LGBTQ+ clients that you might find useful!

LGBTQ+ Resources:

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Other mental health services I offer:

Anyone can suffer from any number of mental health struggles at once. If this specific type of therapy isn’t suited for your needs, take a look at our other areas of focus:

Therapy for ADHD

Therapy for Autism

Therapy for Neurodivergence

Therapy for Trauma

Information on our virtual therapy services for North Carolina

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Before the pandemic, a lot of mental health professionals viewed virtual therapy in a negative light. After the pandemic, the overall attitude in the mental health community has certainly changed. Now we have an opportunity to provide crucial psychotherapy support to anyone in the State of North Carolina! If you live in NC and are interested in working with us, we can make that happen. I utilize an entirely secure digital platform to conduct our sessions and are able to ensure your privacy. The only caveat to working with me is that you must be located in the NC during the session.